The Royal Wedding
by Alissa Picker
(originally shared at ALCF Women’s Conference 2011)
God displays His splendor in people He frees from the past,
transforms in the present, and outfits for eternity.
“I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with the garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.”—Isaiah 61:10
Last April 29, I got up at 2 a.m. to watch the Royal Wedding. I saw Diana get married, and I wanted to watch this one, too. I anticipated that it would be a grand event and I was not disappointed! (To see the Royal Wedding photos, click here.)
Anticipation
Now we all know in the weeks and months leading up to the wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton, that there was endless speculation about who would be invited, what music would be played, and which designer’s fancy hats would be worn. However, the big question was “What will the dress be like, and, would outside pressures be so great as to crush this tender green shoot of love and joy celebrated on that day?”
Why did so many witness the Royal Wedding? I believe God places within us the desire to see a commoner marry royalty because that is what will happen one day for followers of Jesus.
The Royal Wedding
As Kate came down the aisle, Prince William’s best man and brother, Prince Harry, sneaked a peak and saw the bride in her lovely white dress. Turning to Prince William he mouthed the words, “Wait til you see her!” Kate was prepared for the day. She was dressed for her bridegroom’s pleasure, though it brought unending pleasure to the nations as we watched. Indeed, when she came to stand next to Prince William, he got his first glimpse of her as they stood face to face and he said, “You look beautiful!” He was well pleased—delighted, in fact.
I imagine that this is how Jesus, our bridegroom, will feel when we are presented to Him in our clothes of righteousness that He laid down His life to give us!
When the ceremony was over, a bank of heralds blew their trumpets, and the royal couple exited Westminster Cathedral to the deafening peals of thousands of church bells, and the shouts of joy from the masses of people waiting outside. They took their carriage ride through London to Buckingham Palace. Once the couple was in the palace, all were anxiously anticipating when the couple would come out and satisfy the crowds with their first kiss. Eventually the doors pulled back, and Prince William escorted Kate onto the veranda. After they kissed twice to wild applause of the approving crowds, the wedding day was now complete.
The Invitation
However, another royal wedding will soon take place in the heavenlies—one to which we, as commoners, have been invited to participate in as the Bride of Christ. Deeply loved by royalty, the King of Kings and Lord of Lords invites us into eternal relationship with Him. Jesus is eager for us to one day walk down the aisle into His everlasting kingdom, to gaze at Him face to face, and to be unhindered forevermore by the effects of Adam’s fall—sin and death, fear and sorrow, or sickness and disease. He has prepared the most amazing wedding garments ever—His robes of righteousness—so that we may be that pure and spotless bride in the presence of God, the Father. All nations shall see and be amazed by His goodness and holiness and tremendous love, as crowds make their way to the new Jerusalem from all nations, and God’s people join Jesus on His holy mountain never to be separated again!
God offers us His Son in truly holy matrimony which no man can put asunder and even death cannot part. Will we, forsaking all others, be faithful unto Him?
Join WOW! (Women of Worth!) for their next fellowship on Saturday, May 5, 2012 at 10 AM with guest speaker Pastor Danielle Parish. For more information, visit www.alcf.net/women.
Alissa’s life is an example of how God sometimes refuses to uproot His carefully planted seedlings. Despite her own best efforts to leave, God has kept her planted in the 94303 zip code her entire life—first growing up on one side of the freeway (in Palo Alto), and then living out her adult life on the other (in East Palo Alto). After graduating from Stanford with a BA in Humanities-Comparative Literature (French and Italian), Alissa went on to pursue an MA in Counseling Psychology, and has been a licensed Marriage, Family Therapist (MFT) since 1999. Alissa has enjoyed the good places where the Lord has planted her: as one of the original founders of Bayshore Christian Ministries, as a wife to Norm for 24 years, as a mom to Skye (16) and John (11), as a member of ALCF since the Cubberley days 16 years ago.
“Fear God!”
by Teaching Pastor Hurmon Hamilton
“Then the LORD said to Satan, ‘Have you considered my servant Job? There is no one on earth like him; he is blameless and upright, a man who fears God and shuns evil.’ ”—Job 1:8 (NIV)
When most of us think about the term “fear God,” we think of punishment. We imagine ourselves standing before a Holy God, our sins exposed—we are stripped of all pretenses—left naked, ashamed, and trembling before Him! That’s not a bad picture to keep. But often when Scripture talks about the “fear of God,” it’s larger than fearing punishment! It suggests a picture of standing in the presence of God— and being so awe-struck with how awesome God is—that the reverence and respect engendered causes us to tremble. For the Christian, Jesus is both the face and the heart of that Almighty God.
My grand auntie (i.e. mother in every sense of the word) raised me in a small Louisiana town! Unfortunately, I was a difficult child who got into all kinds of trouble. On one occasion, I went down town and did some crazy stuff. When I returned home my mother said, “Boy! Come in here.” After entering the room where she was seated, she calmly told me what I had done. She then said, “Come over here.” I moved toward her with fear-filled steps, because my mother had a reputation for painful and immediate punishments. She said, “I have done all I know to do!” She went on to say, “I have spanked you, I have grounded you, and I have removed privileges! But rather than you getting better you, are getting far worst. I just don’t know what to do!” And that very moment, the lady who I thought was made of steel and iron—the one who I had never seen shed a tear in 16 years—that moment, she broke and began to cry. My heart just melted. I could not take it! I had walked into that room fearing that my mother would break me. I walked out of the room fearing that I would break her—especially her heart! That very moment, my life began to change into the life I now live!
This is the story of Jesus Christ. He shows us both the face and the heart of God. At the end of the day, it is not the fear of punishment that actually produces lasting change in us, it is the fear of breaking the heart of an awesome God who has done everything He knows to save us. Once we know the amazing love that God has for us. Once that love has fully overtaken our consciousness, than breaking God’s heart—desecrating the blood Jesus shed for us, belittling the cross He bore for us, mocking the death He died for us by being disobedient—gives way to a deep fear of spitting in His face and breaking His heart.
- For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whosever, will believe on him will not parish…will not be destroyed…but will have everlasting life—the face and heart of God!—John 3:16
- For God did not send his son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through him might be saved—the face and heart of God!—John 3:17
- You see at just the right time, while we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly—the face and heart of God!—Romans 5:6
This “fear of God”—the fear of spitting in Jesus’ face and breaking his heart—is the only fear that will enable us to be people who walk upright with integrity before the Lord and who shun evil.
Pray this week that God will help you to remember what Jesus has done for you, not just on the cross 2,000 years ago, but during the different seasons of your life. Even when you didn’t know or honor Him, Jesus was helping you! Do you remember?
Perhaps you mother was about to abort you, but Jesus stepped in and said, “I know the plans I have for you—plans to prosper you and to give you a future,” and you are here!
- Somebody was arrogant and abusive—you should have been dropped—but the Lord turned you around.
- Somebody was down—He picked you up.
- Somebody was sick—He healed you.
- Somebody should have been killed in a car accident, or by a gunshot—but He saved you.
- Somebody was homeless—but He housed you.
- Somebody was hopeless—but He raised you.
- Somebody was imprisoned in a jail cell or inside of a destructive addiction— but He delivered you.
May we pray for the fear of God to overtake us this week. That is how we will live a life of real integrity, knowing the love of Jesus Christ, and fearing spitting in the face of that love and breaking His heart. That is how we live out a daily agenda that shuns evil.
“Lord Jesus, plant within my heart a healthy ‘fear of the Lord!’ that I may walk daily with integrity and have an agenda that shuns evil. In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen!”
This devotional is based on the sermon, “Lessons And Insights From Life’s Tumultuous Storms, Part 2,” that was preached by Pastor Hurmon at ALCF on January 29, 2012. To view, click here.
Why Do You Serve God?
by Teaching Pastor Hurmon Hamilton
“Does Job fear God for nothing?” Satan replied. (Job 1:9 NIV)
Why do you serve God? Is it for the blessings of a healthy family, financial success, great reputation, and personal health? Job’s life was enormously blessed with all of these. And, in the face of these blessings, he was “blameless and upright, he feared God and shunned evil.” (Job 1:8)
But after Job loses these blessings, he says, “what I feared has come upon me. What I dreaded has happened to me.” (Job 3:25) Was Satan’s subtle allegation right? Did Job simply serve God because God was blessing him? Was human suffering that thing which Job “feared” and “dreaded?”
It appears so! Perhaps Job hoped that by being wonderfully faithful to God he would be guaranteed no major suffering. Since Job viewed his relationship with God through the lens of God’s blessings, he was unable to recognize God when the blessings disappeared. This is immature faith! Mature faith knows that it is impossible for the faithful to avoid human suffering in a broken world. The dreaded “Ds”—disease, divorce, devastation, disaster, and death—impact the lives of Christians just like they do everyone else. The difference is that these dreaded “Ds” will not have the last word in a Christian’s life! The last word will always be with our Savior—Jesus Christ.
Immature faith pursues a relationship with God for God’s blessings. To do this exclusively is to cripple ourselves spiritually—by growing within us a faith that is only “blessing deep!” “Blessing deep,” suggests that our knowledge of God and our faithfulness to God is only as great as God’s blessings are abundant in our lives. Remove the blessings, as Satan suggests in chapter one of Job, and we are unable to recognize God, amid life’s storms, because we do not know God’s Character. Blessings are tied to God’s purposes in our lives, not to God’s Character!
God is good (character)—regardless of our blessings. God is merciful (character)—regardless of our circumstances. God is faithful (character)—regardless of our most recent experiences in a broken world. The guarantee that we have is attached to God’s character not to God’s blessings. Moreover, Christians possess a view of God that Job did not know— Jesus Christ. Jesus (God wrapped in humanity) dies for our sins, conquers death for our future—and as the resurrected Savior—says in our present, “Come to me all ye who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest!” Jesus reveals a God who is good, merciful, faithful, loving, forgiving, trustworthy, and dependable! Jesus is God, worthy to be praised, no matter the abundance of blessings or lack thereof! Jesus Christ is God’s Character revealed.
The questions remain: “Do you serve God for nothing?” and “Do you only know God’s blessings or do you know God’s Character?”
Prayer: “Lord, let me know your Character so well that I can recognize you, praise you, and trust you—even amidst life’s worst storms! Amen.”
This devotional is based on the sermon, “Lessons and Insights From Life’s Tumultuous Storms, Part 1,” that was preached by Pastor Hurmon at ALCF on January 22, 2012. To view, click here.
“We Are All Here!”
by Teaching Pastor Hurmon Hamilton
But Paul cried with a loud voice, saying, “Do thyself no harm: for we are all here.”—Acts 16:28 (KJV)
One of the dangers of pain, is that it seduces us into isolation. Pain can lure one into believing that he or she is alone in his or her unique experiences. Too often, believers are convinced that silence and secrets are the only responses they can trust when they hurt.
Within the isolated jail cells of pain and silence, we run the risk of doing ourselves harm. Like the jailer, who was about to take his own life—fully convinced that his prisoners had escaped when, in fact, they remained—we are tempted to believe what is not true and act in destructive ways when we remain in our pain.
But the “we and us” sections of Acts 15 and 16 teaches a different truth:
- It was in the company of other believers that Lydia discovered the truth about Jesus Christ’s love, thus, the baptism and transformation of her entire family. (Acts 16:13–15)
- It was in the company of Paul and Silas that the slave girl found deliverance from both an evil spirit and evil men. (Acts 16:16–21)
- Ringing from a Philippi jail—amongst prisoners who did not know each other but who held in common the pain of brutality and imprisonment—are the words “do thyself no harm, for we are all here!” (Acts 16:22–28)
God calls us, especially when we are hurting, to move from the isolated rooms of “I” and “me” to the grand ballroom of “we” and “us!” O Lord, let us hear the word that comes from ALCF’s pastors, elders, counselors, Growth Groups, prayer intercessors, and so many more: “Do thyself no harm, for we are all here!”
So let us prepare to dance, heal, serve, and celebrate as the people of God bound together by the blood of Jesus Christ and the love-filled fellowship of our ALCF community.
This devotional is based on the sermon, “It’s A New Season,” that was preached by Pastor Hurmon at ALCF on January 15, 2012. To view, click here.
A Note From Pastor John
by Pastor John Gorin
[GG Encourager, Winter 2010]
Q: What is the difference between a Growth Group (GG) and a book club or civic organization like the Kiwanis Club? After all, each of these groups has a specific purpose, has voluntary membership, and provides a setting where people can develop friendships over shared interests.
A: True, a Growth Group shares some of the features with other group-oriented organizations; however, what sets the GG apart is that it is a community that God has brought together for the purpose of glorifying Him as we demonstrate our love for one another. We meet together regularly so that we grow in love and, thus, increasingly reflect that we are Christ’s disciples. Jesus said, “By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:35). Read more 
From Independence to Interdependence
One Group’s Journey of Prayer and Support
By Ming-Huey Jeng
[GG Encourager, Summer 2009]
In a world where being independence and self-reliance are encouraged, Margaret (not her real name) knows all too well the pressures of being able to stand alone. “I’m very independent. I don’t rely on people and I don’t like to inconvenience anyone,” she says. This sense of self-reliance, perhaps instilled in her at a young age after her parents’ divorce, was perpetuated when she moved to California alone and landed a job at a prestigious technology firm. “Part of me was overworking because it’s a great company, a great opportunity, and it looked great on paper. So I was doing whatever it took to prove myself and to find my worth in my work. But the job was killing me, literally, and I didn’t know it.” Read more 
Living Spiritually Healthy Lives
by Pastor Cora Harper
[Volume 4, Issue 4, Fall 2010]
We live in a culture that inundates us with studies and surveys about our physical and emotional health. While these areas of our lives are important, spiritual health is even more important for the believer’s well-being. When was the last time you surveyed your spiritual health? Read more 
Recalculating Life’s Path
by Pastor Roy Tinklenberg
[Volume 4, Issue 1/2, Winter/Spring 2010]
Last Christmas, my family decided to take a road trip to Dallas. To make our life on the road a little easier, my wife, Esther, gave me a GPS (Global Positioning System) as an early Christmas present. What a handy gadget! Each time we came to a fork in the road, it would let us know if we had to stay to the right or veer to the left. And if we ever made a wrong turn, a soft, reassuring voice would simply say, “recalculating.” Read more 
Navigating Our Way Through the Unexpected
by Karin Baker
[Volume 4, Issue 1/2, Winter/Spring 2010]
A traumatic or sudden change—a miscarriage, a layoff, a troubling health diagnosis, the absence of a mentor, or the death of a loved one—can deeply impact your world. It is a life-changing event. You may feel that the change does not make sense or even feel real. There are going to be days when you will ask why and may want answers. Read more 









